almost bridezilla?

Photo by cherie6c

So the idea of a Bridezilla is crazy to me.  And I admit, I get sucked into the show on WE tv and wonder how women get to that point of obnoxiousness (granted some of it has to be staged, but still...).  I can't help but think, someone allowed these women to act this way and someone fed into this idea of "it's my wedding and I can act however I want".  So family and friends of these women, I blame you.  Yup I said it... I blame you.


My mom has been saying "I hope you don't turn into a Bridezilla".  I honestly don't see how it's possible.  Between my family, bridesmaids, friends, wedding planner, and most importantly, my fiancé, I will get checked with a quickness!


Our wedding isn't all about me.  It is about us, joining together as one and professing our commitment, love, and dedication to each other, in front of God, our family, and close friends.  As much as I love to be the center of attention at times, this is one day that I know and really believe that it isn't about me; our wedding is much bigger than me.


So yes, I am particular, want our day to be perfect, and want to create a moment that we will all remember.  But I refuse to act like a spoiled, bitchy, brat and damage relationships with the people close to me.  But if for some reason, I get out of line, I am counting on my inner circle to check me.  And if I morph into a Bridezilla, I will partially blame you :)!